For those of you who have been following me over the years, you will recognize this handsome fellow, my love and my biggest inspiration, Ando. It is with tremendous sadness that I have to tell you that he passed away recently. I am devastated, to say the least. He was a piece of my heart, which is now empty.
Ando was the first cat I got as a kitten and he stayed by my side for just short of 14 years. Unfortunately, he had been battling a number of different ailments including diabetes, kidney failure, hyper-thyroid and, the thing that took him from me, heart failure.
Over the years and right up until the very end, he was always my best product tester and model, eager to try anything new the moment I took it out of the box. He would look right at the camera and pose perfectly with his shiny black coat and yellow-green eyes.
He was the most charming cat I’ve ever met and I’m pretty sure everyone who ever met him would agree. His presence was huge and his demeanor regal and calming.
Ando was also incredibly destructive, usually when he wanted attention or food, and he had me wrapped around his little paw.
He was into everything and all of his brothers and sisters absolutely adored him. We said he was like the Fonz, every girl cat wanted to be with him and every boy cat wanted to be him.
He was a complete crack-up and kept us laughing all the time. The thing I miss the most is that he always sat on my desk when I was working, usually with his paw or head on my hand, and he slept on my pillow at night. It has been incredibly difficult not to have him around but the thing that has been the most comforting has been hearing from friends and fellow cat lovers like you, my readers, who know what it’s like to love a cat in this way. We love them all, but some are very, very special.
He was my guardian angel in this life and I know he continues to be now and forever. Ando, you are a piece of my soul and I will love you for eternity. You are my number one Hauspanther.
I’m so very sorry Kate. I lost my house panther last fall. I think I’m ok but the little things get me. 8 months later I still can’t open a jar of olives without expecting to see him saunter into the kitchen looking for a handout. You are right….they are all special, just sometimes some a little bit more. Sending you all purrs.
Well I have been following yo for quite some time, and I am so sorry for your loss. It’s jus not fair and I know how heartbreaking this is. RIP sweet kitty💔
I’m so sorry for your loss. I had a special boy named Ollie. He was my life companion and nothing is the same without him. I understand. My sincere condolences.
I’m so sorry for the loss of Ando. I had a cat named Roger who looked quite similar, I will always miss him. Best wishes to you.
I am so sorry for your loss. I love all of my kitties, but my Seamus was extraspecial like your Ando. It takes a long time. — Allison
I’m so sorry Kate, I know what you must be going through. Within one month we lost two of our three. Draco was our first to go last month when we discovered his ailments were do to cancer, he was 9. Our oldest at 16 was taken away this passed monday when he suddenly developed increased symptoms of heart disease. Our thoughts are with you.
Oh, Kate. How heartbroken I am to read of your loss. As you probably know, Ando is (and will always be) my favorite hauspanther, gloriously glossy house panther model/muse, and best friend of yours. Along with those sparkly torties, he had me wrapped around his tail from the start, and though I have never met any of you personally, I feel a special regard for you all, including Ando. <3 ((((((((^^)))))))) <3 Fly free, whole, healthy, and forever Loved, Angel Ando. Watch over your loved ones until reunited in due time. My own house panthers Calo and King Sunny, along with many, many other beloveds, surely greeted you at the Bridge. There's sure to be a whole lot of partying going on up there.
I am very sorry for your loss. There are great cats, then there are the special ones that are so bonded to an individual, that they are one with their human. I still miss my one, Wednesday.
What a Handsome, Talented Model!! How lucky you both were to have each other. Love! =^..^=
I am truly very sorry to hear about the loss of your panther. We recently lost of our four panthers to stomach cancer. We still have her sister, but there is something missing. But we know that right now she is in a better place with all of the cat nip and furry mice to chase.
Kate, words cannot express my sorrow for your loss! Having lost several feline companions in my lifetime, I know your pain and emptiness too well! My thoughts are with you and yours during this time of mourning!
I’m so very sorry to hear this. Reading this made me cry. I have experienced losing a cat that I’ve loved for years 2 years ago and the pain is still fresh. I admit that sharing my time with other cats helps with the pain, but the cat I lost will always hold a special place that isn’t replaceable. To be honest, I try to envision a Heaven for cats where my cat is now playing with every fun cat toy imaginable. Seems silly but it makes me smile.
Kate- I am so sorry for the loss of Ando! 🙁 Especially as you are dealing with so much already! You are in my thoughts & prayers! I hope you find comfort knowing Ando is feeling better than ever making new & reuniting with old friends as he watches over you from Heaven! -Sarah (From the Pie Factory ASU MFA Dance Concert YEARS ago!)
So incredibly sorry for your loss. Thank you so very much for sharing Ando with the rest of us. Understanding hugs to you.
What a heartfelt and heart-wrenching tribute. Thank you for sharing that. Ando was very lucky to have a cat mom as loving as you, and you were lucky to have him in your life for the too-short time that you did. My deepest condolences to you. Rest In Peace, Ando
I am truly sorry for your loss. Sending hugs.
So sorry for your loss, but as you know they never truly leave us because a piece of them has shaped us into who we are and will be. He was a beautiful boy and will always have his presence known.
Love on as he would want you too… ❣️
I’m so sorry for your loss. I have lost three furballs during a year. I keep thinking about them often and always my heart is crying. I did not know your sweet cat before, but from the pictures, I can see how sweet he was. RIP little sweetheart.
My deepest sympathies for your loss of such a sweet fellow. May that empty space in your heart someday be filled with the wonderful and loving memories you had together. As you feel your grief and pain, know that Ando is right now sitting in the lap of an angel who will love and care for him.
A black cat will steal your heart like no other. And each one is different. You will never replace Ando, but another black cat will enchant you in other ways. I’m 71 now and have two at the moment, but I got my first black one back in the early sixties. And have always had at least one! He will start visiting you in a while. You’ll see him out of the corner of your eye and I you look, he’ll disappear. But he will always check on you you until you get to meet again…
I’m sadden about the passing of Ando, what handsome boy and he knew it. We love them all but one always tugs at our hearts in a very special way. I’m very sorry.
What a beautiful little tribute you wrote for Ando. He sounds like a character for sure! Just think how lucky you are that he picked you to be his cat mom (hoomun). He knew the two of you were meant to be together!
I’m so sorry for the loss of your son (cat) but luckily you have other children, friends, family & work to help you with this trying time.
Prayers & kitty kisses,
Tammy & Kayla (my daughter)
God blessed us with these beautiful felines, who we love and are loved by. Only thing, their lives are way too short. So sorry for the loss of your Ando.
Oh Kate, to have such a love…
I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart hurts and goes out to you.
These special beings push us to open our hearts more than we ever thought we could…so to lose them…just hurts
Please take good care of yourself and your other kitties during this time of sadness.
What a beautiful tribute for your Handsome Ando aka the Fonz! The kitchen shots are just the best, his personality shines though! What a good boy! My heart breaks for you and his kitty buddies. I have felt that utter sadness. Your loss, your boy is irreplaceable, the hole in your heart is forever, but the special love you shared is epic and will gone on for you both forever as well. Peace to you both.
Hi Kate, I also lost my house panther Portia at age 14, due to oral cancer. Years have passed and I have four other cats, but I now have a failed TNR kitten named Maya Angelou. She is looking to live up to the house panther legends…I hope your devastation can evolve to sweet memories soon. My five cats agree heartily!
So sorry for your loss. RIP kitty.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. There are always those special cats that take a piece of our hearts when they leave us.
I am so sorry. He was handsome and clearly such a good partner. I hope some peace comes for you in knowing he is still with you in so many ways. But I am sorry for the grief.
I’m so very sorry to hear about the loss of your precious boy Ando. I always enjoyed seeing him in the Hauspanther emails I receive, posing and trying out all the different products. He was quite photogenic. May he have endless amounts of catnip and all the toys he wants to play with over the rainbow bridge.
Oh Kate, they never live long enough, do they? I’ve admired Ando for years when you featured him. (I’m a sucker for black cats, and he was especially handsome.) I lost my beloved Mina (another black cat with a huge personality) about 7 or 8 years ago, and I still miss her, especially how she’d snuggle up to my side every night, all night, in bed, and how she made sounds I’d never heard a cat make before as we’d converse. All I can say is that in time the pain lessens, and you can treasure the memories as you make room in your heart for another cat.
Yes I know that kind of loss and my heart breaks for you. He was a beautiful boy and he lives on through the work you do for all kitties.
I am so sorry for your loss of Ando, Kate. He was truly a great cat and wonderful role model for all. Your description of him reminds me of some of my past angels. Hopefully all your wonderful memories help you some in this difficult time. I know it is very hard. He will wait for you and see you again. Healing purrs are sent from my gang.
Sincere condolences for the loss of your handsome boy …. May he run free in heaven and you will see him again there someday.
Hugs and kisses to you! I’m so sorry.
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you Kate at this sad and difficult time. RIP Sweet Ando.
Holding you and yours in our cat-family’s paws. We know how sad it is to have that cat-shaped hole in your heart.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Kate, what a wonderful and loving tribute to Ando. What amazing and fully formed personalities these beautiful beings have. I feel it is such an honor to know a cat and discover they are as complex and wonderful as any human. You and he were beyond lucky to have that relationship. I agree with those who feel that they really don’t leave, that they stay with us forever. Wishing you joy in remembering him and peace in knowing that you gave him a great life full of love.
I am so sorry for your loss. Ando was a handsome fellow, and now I know he was even more beautiful inside as he was outside. I always admired his dashing expressions and regal bearing. May every memory of Ando bring you peace.
So sorry for the loss of your most treasured family member. My heart goes out to you. What a beautiful soul your cat was. Sending you feelings of peace and healing vibes.
So sorry you lost your sweet kitty.
So very sorry for your loss, Kate. I know how it is losing a heart cat. I lost my Nikolas in 2011 and still mourn him. Sending purrs and bright blessings to you.
I know how sad it is to lose such a good friend. My heart goes out to you.
Evidently Ando had a lot of personality – or should I say purrsonality. Each cat (or other pet) is different and it’s so hard to say good-bye. I’m sorry for your loss. Purrs.
Your wonderfully written tribute made me feel like I know Ando personally. The pics were equally touching. I wouldn’t mind seeing more of him. And hearing more about him. How blessed both of you were to have each other to love.
((Kate))
I know how sad it is to lose such a dear friend. My heart goes out to you.
I’m so sorry, my heart goes out to you. I too lost a very special furry friend – last year. We’re so fortunate to befriend these wonderful little beings. It is so very difficult when we have to say goodbye. Again, i am so sorry.
Oh, Ando, what a beautiful boy you were. You were so lucky to have such a kind and sensitive human, whose love for you was bottomless. She gave you such a nice life, and you gave her so much happiness. Rest in Peace, sweet boy.
Kate, I am so very sorry you lost your special boy. I too, lost a piece of my heart and my special boy, Stig. We do love them all, but there are the ones with which our souls become forever intertwined. Ando was your soul cat and Stig was mine. My heart goes out to you. Godspeed to your boy, until you and he meet again.
Kate, my heart breaks for your loss of Sweet Ando🖤 So terribly sorry😿
So very sorry for your loss. He was a very beautiful cat <3
I’m so sorry for the loss of your Ando! :'( I wish they could stay with us forever! He was well loved and so lucky to have you for his cat mom. My deepest condolences!
I know what it’s like to lose a dear friend. My heart goes out to you.
Oh Kate,
We are sooo sorry for your loss. We know how this feels – My hubby and I had a beautiful Black cat named Mootsie and she was a character. After 18 lovely years with our house panther, we had to say good-bye to the embodiment of this gal and know she too, as Ando, was and still is our guardian Angel. Prayers for your breaking heart and Ando, may you rest in peace.
Cheryl and Gary Dippel
And, Ando made us friends, something for which I will forever be grateful. You just got to him first. This tribute is amazing. It touched my heart and pushed it into my throat where it is currently lodged hoping to find the words, only knowing there are no words. I believe the one you lose guides the next one into your life. Pip chose Zeke. Zoa chose Hank. Malachi chose Virgil. And Oskar, well, he was such an elitist supermodel I’m sure he’s running auditions to see who deserves to be the Next Top Model. I am looking forward to seeing who Ando pushes in your direction.
I am so very sorry. 😢
Kate I am so sorry for your loss!
My heart weeps with yours.
Yes, some cats become part of your very breath, and when they move on it is true devastation. Please know that as much as Ando loved you, he knew he was loved by you, and he took that with him when he crossed the bridge.
Ando is struggling no more. You were his best friend forever and you shall remain his best friend forever. His energy is with you still; feel it inside you.
I wish you sweeter memories.
What a sweetie. So sorry for your loss 🙁
I am so heartbroken for you. Ando was a perfect model indeed and his soul broke thru in all his photographs. His look conveyed that he would have done anything for you.
I am so sorry. I lost my soul kitty, Spike, in 2014
and still feel empty without him. This, in spite of
currently having 9 other cats. They are all wonderful
but some complete you. I am sorry you are now
experiencing the anguish that comes when losing
a special kitty cat. Hopefully we meet at the RB,
entry to a world run by the cats. 🌿🥀🥀🌿
I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Loosing a pet, especially one you are so close to is harder than loosing a human as there really isn’t any closure and you can’t explain why you can’t make them feel better. I just lost my big man to cancer in April and I still can’t function. He saved me eleven years ago when he came into my life as a bottle baby when I was in a very dark place. The pain comes in waves and is suffocating at times. These are wonderful photos you chose from so many and it was beautiful to hear about the guy who we came to recognize as the face of Hauspanther. I wish I had better words of comfort, he will be remembered and missed in the kitty community.
I’m so very, very sorry Kate – Ando was such a handsome boy and I love your analogy of how he was like the Fonz! I have a soft spot for black cats (I’m from the U.K. and in England, black cats are lucky!). I’m sure your other moggies (Brit for ‘cats’) will miss him as well. Wishing you strength and hugs, remember you gave him an amazing home for many years. All the best. xx
🙁 I’m so sorry for your loss. Those of us who have gotten a really special kitty are lucky to have had such an experience but sometimes the hole they leave behind takes years to heal, if ever. He was lucky to be so loved.
I am so sorry for your loss. As others have mentioned, there are many of us who understand that while we may love all our cats fiercely, some are just beyond that. I hope it helps in some small way to know others have an understanding of your pain. And, of course, you gave him a wonderful life and I’m sure he wouldn’t have traded places with another cat for anything. While the pain never disappears, you will find yourself recalling happy times more and more and with those memories, you will carry him with you always. Rest in peace, majestic Ando.
Kate, I’m very sorry. You made me cry. Ando now, will be your Guardian Angel forever !
I’m so sorry Kate. You’re right about loving them all, but also having one with that special something. I’m glad you have all those great photos of him. It’s not easy getting good photos of black cats. RIP Ando.
Oh Kate, it’s so hard to go through such a loss. Although we watch from afar, these special souls touch many lives. Deepest condolences and virtual hugs.
So sorry for your loss. Your tribute to Ando also reflects the wonderful life you provided for him.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve been following your blog for a while and loved seeing Ando model for you. He was a special guy and you two were lucky to have found each other.
I’m so sorry, Kate. It’s hard to lose such a special friend. I love all these pictures of Ando, and I hope they bring you joy in the future.
In the meantime, I hope you can take comfort from your other kitties.
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss of Ando. It is so difficult to lose someone so near and dear to you. He will forever remain in your heart. My sincere condolences.
I’m so very sorry. Your Ando is so reminiscent of my Baz, not just for being a handsome black cat, but the look in the eyes that look into your very soul. This is not a loss that is easily recovered from. My best wishes.
I’m so sorry for your lost. I used to have a Siamese named Ghost who slept curled up next to me under the covers every night. Even when she had tiny newborn kittens one time, she brought them to bed with her. It took me so long to learn to sleep without her there beside me.
I’m so sorry to hear of Ando’s passing, Kate. I’ve admired him for years. I hope that your happy memories of the time you had together will comfort you as you move forward.
Kate,
My heart goes out to you in this very difficult time. It’s a terrible, horrible thing to lose such a beloved companion but what a beautifully written piece and tribute you gave Ando! It was wonderful to read & he knew how much you loved him….so obvious from the photos. My husband & I had to say goodbye to our senior cats last year after 18 & 19 treasured years together. It’s one of the hardest things I’ve been through but give your heart time to heal because it will….and you will forever have the precious memories & guardian kitty with you.
Hugs,
Victoria
A beautiful tribute. Rest in Peace, Mr. Ando Kitty
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a handsome boy, for sure! No matter how long we’ve shared our lives with a furbaby, and no matter how prepared we think we are for the end, we never are fully prepared. It is always heartbreaking. I hope you find all the strength and support you need in this difficult time.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your muse, Ando. I know what you mean about some standing out & are more special than others. I foster & have done for years in addition to my own clowder. it is hard to lose any of them. comforting to know that they all will be waiting across that Rainbow Bridge to welcome us someday. just be glad that you have the others to help heal your heart.
What a lovely tribute to your special boy, your sweet memories and photos will help your heartbreak. We all understand the love for your special Ando, and how you must be feeling today. <3
so sorry for you loss, kate. he really was a handsome boy. i know the space he occupied in your heart will never be replaced, but i hope you can find peace and comfort being surrounded by your other furbabies. sending virtual hugs!
And was striking and special. I know this is a huge loss.
My special black cat, Critter, was with me for 22 years and I still miss her.
I’m so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))
Thanks for the beautiful memorial. We’ll miss him!
I’m so sorry Kate, it is such a difficult moment in every pet owner’s life. Some might not understand, but they are part of our family and home. You look around the house, at their special places and to see they are not there just leaves you heartbroken.
Dear Kate,
The loss of a pet is one of life’s greatest heartbreaks. May the wonderful memories of Ando soothe your soul at this very sad time.
I’m so sorry for your loss. He is your guardian angel now and will forever be by your side in spirit.
I am so very sorry for your loss. I do know what it feels like. He will never be forgotten.
Rebecca Rudy
Heartbreaking to hear about your loss of Ando. Grateful he was loved and adored by you and clearly leaves behind some great memories and all those fabulous images, which will make you smile and laugh as time heals the heart. Sending love your way.
Oh Kate I am so, so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how fortunate we are to share life with a character like Ando, mine was named Nigel, and I lost him very unexpectedly last Sept. to lymphoma, also at 14. I am still missing him & always will.
You’ve been through so much lately, and I’m sure dear Ando was a big comfort. As you said, his spirit will always be with you. You gave him a wonderful life & he gave you his best.
I’m in tears after reading this. I also had a very special cat. Like you said, all of our pets are loved and very special in their own right, but one always stands out. My Callie was that ‘one’. I am so sorry for your loss. RIP Ando.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. Hugs!!!
So very sorry! You are definitely not alone in this. Empathy hugs, as well as healing, peaceful, loving energy to you!
So very sorry for your loss. It is amazing how much space these small beings can take up in your heart, and then when they are gone, there is a massive hole that never truly seems to get filled again. You just learn to live with that hole, and after time, it doesn’t seem to be quite as big. I am so happy you had a very special kitty in your life to help you. And you were absolutely a special person in Ando’s life.
I’m very sorry for your loss of Ando. You love them all but sometimes there’s one that touches your soul just so, thank goodness for that little life. purrrrrs
I am so very sorry for your loss. We all know what it’s like to have that incredibly special member of the family – that’s why we’re fans of your site. My gorgeous sidekick was named Androclese, though I called him Andro. He wanted to be with the people, always. He greeted all who entered our home. Just like Ando, there will never be another.
Thank you for sharing all the great photos of Ando over the years and here now. I love knowing others have experienced the unique love and adoration of a cat like Ando or Andro. He was truly special.
I’m so sorry… I know the pain you are feeling all too well. God bless.
I’m very sorry about Ando. He certainly was a handsome model and a great product tester! You wrote a beautiful tribute to him and I shed some tears while reading your post. Sending hugs!
I’m so sorry for your loss of Ando. There is just something about those black cats! They have the greatest personalities and are so fun. May your happy memories carry you through your grief of his loss.
I’m so sorry. So many of the things you said were just like my Bella. She always had to be in contact with me in some way: on my lap, or snuggled up to my arm if I was crocheting or on the computer, or even if it was just to stretch her little paw out and rest it on my arm or leg. Bella died just shy of 14 years, too. Diabetes and kidney failure, too. And destructive, too. I used to tell her she was a dog in her former life for all the chewing she did. Bella was my shadow. She always wanted to be in whatever room I was in. Because of her chewing she wasn’t allowed in my bedroom until the last month of her life. I’m so glad i made the decision to let her. She slept on the pillow next to mine. Bella left me one month after my last chemo treatment. I have her ashes on my mantle and will keep them with me forever. <3
I am so sorry to hear about Ando. Our girl Jewel recently passed and took a piece of us with her. Ando will forever live on in your heart and Hauspanther!
Oh, I am so, so sorry. The pain is so immense it can be hard to breathe. I still cry for the loss of my Rhubarb even 4 years later. I know the love you speak of. You are not alone. It takes a special person with an enormous heart to truly love a pet as you do. Ando was so lucky to have you as his person.
I’m so sorry about the loss of your wonderful Ando. He sounds like such a sweetheart and I’m sure you’ll miss him. My beloved Fitzy-2 (named after a cat named Fritz) also was very special and passed away recently. He would spoon with me in bed or lay across my shins to sleep. We often connected emotionally by looking at each other with kitty-kisses (slow blinks). I know time will help deal with the loss we’ve experienced, but nothing’s quite the same. Thank you for sharing your story.
It is so very sad to hear of your loss. Although it has happened to me more than once in my lifetime, it never gets any easier. Just remember that in order to feel a great loss, you had to have that really special relationship in the first place. Keep remembering how special he was and use all of that extra love in your heart to spend on your other hauspanthers.Take care.
I lost my Tony about two months ago at 19, He had been exceptionally healthy right up until he took a turn for the worst. He could be a very cranky kitty but I loved him very much.
So very sorry for your loss. I enjoyed the pictures of Ando over the years. He was a very handsome fellow and his photos radiate feline nobility. I know how hard it is to lose these beloved life companions.
I’m so sorry. Losing a pet is so tough. Ando was so handsome! Take comfort in the fact that he lived a wonderful, long life and was incredibly loved and well-taken care of (spoiled, even!). Grieve as long and as hard as you need to. Last time I lost a pet I was lucky and grateful that my boss happened to be a huge animal lover and she completely understood the need to take a little time off. Thinking of you and Ando <3
So sorry for your loss, Kate. My mini panther is named Fonz and he too is the love of my life along with LaVerne. They capture our hearts and make life so much better. You have so many happy memories and pictures to keep his spirit alive. Other cats cannot replace the cats we’ve lost, but they can open us up to an unconditional love again. Prayers going out to you.
Like everyone has said before me, I truly understand how you feel. My fur ball Sapphire got his wings ten years ago at the old age of 20 and a half. As you can guess, the two of us went through a lot together! I will always love him. I still tear up when I read things like your tribute to Ando as it reminds me of Sapphire, but I will smile when I read your tribute again, because it will remind me of Sapphire! I will always miss him, even though I am now the Mom to two more adorable kitties. I hope that Sapphire and Ando are frolicking around together today, pain free and full of pep! Tearful regards, Debra
This beautiful homage to your precious Ando brought me to tears. What a lovely tribute to a beautiful, special little soul. I hope you can feel the collective virtual hug we, your Hauspanther followers, have for you in your time of sorrow and loss…many of us (if not all) have experienced this kind of heartache too many times and always much too soon.
Handsome Ando is up there now as your winged protector and some day you’ll be re-united. Until then I hope the happy memories help heal your heart day by day. Thank you so much for sharing his story and pictures.
BLACK CATS ROCK!
I’m SO, SO sorry for your loss!!! They are so wonderful and enrich our lives so much but it’s horrible losing them 🙁 I wish they could all live forever with us but know that he had a wonderful life with you and I truly believe Ando will be waiting over the Rainbow Bridge for you some day.
I’m so horribly sorry for your loss and the pain you must be experiencing. I know I’ve never recovered from losing the cats to which I was closest. I hope that the change in house dynamics eventually leads to another cat filling the hole that’s been left.
Thank you for sharing Ando with us. His beautiful soul will be with you always. I am close on the road behind you, as my boy cat had first hyperthyroid, then congestive heart failure and now lymphoma. I think when we spend this extra close time caring for their illnesses, we develop an even closer bond. I know you cherished your closeness with Ando, as I do with my boy. May your sadness give way to smiles of cherished memories.
I’m so sorry. That’s a lot of problems for one kitty to have. Good job taking such awesome care of him. I love black kitties. Hugs. He will be watching over you until you meet again.
Oh Kate this was a most beautiful tribute, I had learned about Ando’s passing on Ingrid’s blog……..I am so deeply, deeply sorry. I had intended to reach out to you and I am appalled that I didn’t. I so enjoyed seeing Ando through the years, and I KNOW exactly what you are talking about. “we love them all but there are some that are very, very special.” I lost my Angel Bobo in 2007 when he was 18 (also from heart failure) and he was one of those “special” ones. Always with me as Ando was with you. I am convinced he is still with me in my soul……they never truly leave us…..just in their body form but not in spirit. Sending you much love and my deepest sympathy. (((hugs)))
I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing our fur babies never gets easier even when you know it’s time to let them go. He was loved, cherished & he held on to that until the end. You now have a feline angel looking over you and he will be waiting for you over the Rainbow Bridge some day in the future.
My heart weeps with you, Kate. Ando is such a beautiful and special cat. I believe, like you, that he will be with you forever, now and through eternity. God give you peace.
I always enjoyed seeing Ando test products. I will miss him. I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
So sorry for your loss. The heartache never leaves but neither does the love. Ando was clearly a very special boy and a fine model indeed.
I’m a long-time follower of yours, and as long as I’ve been with you I’ve admired and appreciated Ando. His spirit came across in photos, and I looked forward to seeing his response to new products. My sincerest condolences for your loss.
I’m sorry to hear of Ando’s passing. You have my deepest sympathies.
I loved Ando, as I do all
black kitties. I know this hurts very much. Thank you for sharing your funny guy with us.
I am so sorry for your loss. When you think of him remember the happy moments with him.
RIP to your precious kitty. May you guys reunite at Rainbow Bridge one day. Xoxo
What a beautiful regal boy. I am a sucker for big black cats. Obviously he was so loved. I know how tough it is. We have lost 2 this year & have 4 more ages 16-20 so I am kind of dreading the next couple of years. It will get easier but sometimes a little thing will bring the grief back in waves. Thank you for giving him such a great life.
Oh, Ando. What a handsome devil. I’m very sorry for your loss. I’ve lost many pets over the years. The most rescent being Lucy aka Lu Lu. I rescued the adorable calico at four weeks old in 1994. And she lived until July 11, 2017! 23 years!!!. Losing them is always so sad, but she was one of the toughest. Seems like she had been with me forever. I know someday we will see all our critters again. In the meantime I hope my Lulu and your Ando are hanging out climbing trees and doing fun cat things together.
Oh Kate, I know what you are going through and it sucks. My big boy Soulcat left 6 years ago & I still miss him everyday. He was very much like Ando (had all the same illnesses too) in stature but very Zen. I felt like the floor dropped out beneath me and everything was surreal… I couldn’t eat for 2 weeks. People will tell you “Time heals all wounds” but for me it doesn’t – it just makes the scars fade a bit more.
I do know how you feel right now – just get through one day at a time in your own way. Grief is personal….nothing is wrong or right. Your tat is a beautiful memory. One morning down the way you’re going to wake up & life won’t seem so devastating. That’s your new day….
What an awesome kitty! How sad Ando passed away. He looks just like my cat Spooky who died at 15 of kidney failure. I always learn a lot from each of my cats, and I agree, it’s like losing a piece of one’s heart when they die. Fortunately, Ando had a wonderful guardian…and getting to test out all those kitty presents surely was a great way to live.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I had my first set of cats (both girls) for 17 years. They were my consistent true companions during my 20ies into my thirties. I can honestly say Maui and Flash “ kept me passing by the open windows.” Cherish your memories of Ando.
Best,
Deena
Look at all these responses. What a tribe of supporters! I am forever thankful for those who can understand the specific pain of the loss of a dearly beloved pet.
And so I join them in hoping your heart heals and heals quickly. By healing I mean functional and able to keep the tears from flowing. Your heart is forever scarred, another badge of honor for you. It’s a sure sign of a pet lover. May there be many more. And, of course, Ando would not want your sadness. He’d be there, purring and soothing.
If I could change one thing about pets, it would be their lifespan. Most of the time, we outlive them. The upside of that is that they do live forever in our hearts.
Well tears are rolling down my cheeks and I never even met him. Very sorry for your loss and he was also lucky to have you in his life. Extra hugs and kisses for all our animal family members.
I wished cats & dogs lived as long as turtles. God Bless.
Very sorry about your loss, hope ando is doing well now in the Cat Planet
My heart goes out to you! We just lost our first kitty last month and the loss is devastating so I know you’re going through the same feeling. Hugs!
My condolences on the loss of your loving family member.
Dear Kate,
I am so sorry you lost Ando. I know what is like to lose an very special cat. All cats are special, bot some of our cats are heart cats. Like you said part of your soul. I truly empathize with your pain and anguish. Although there really are no words that will make your loss easier, know that all of us in the cat world are with you during this devastating time. I can still see so clearly in my mind my sweet but incredibly naughty Balinese named Stitches. Stitches slept on my pillow and his purr reverberated through to my heart and soul. You have expressed so eloquently what Ando’s loss means to you and your words also reinforce what being a cat lover means to us all. Your words actually comfort me. I hope that makes sense.
Truly know that while nothing can bring Ando back to your pillow at night, know that he is watching over you, and will whisper in the ears of all the kittens who share your life after him just how to be loving AND naughty. Ando is still with your in your heart. Please let your wonderful memories of Ando sooth your heart, soul and mind.
Sincerely,
Nanci Byers
Our hearts, love, prayers are with you we are so very sorry 💔🙏💔🙏
It sounds like you lost your one-in-a-million cat–one of the really special ones. After I lost my cat, my boyfriend bought me a hot pack shaped like a cat (from Amazon), because my special cat used to sleep wrapped around my neck and I couldn’t sleep after I lost her. The cat hot pack helped me sleep without my cat (my new cat is not a snuggler).
It does get better, but my usual remedy is to go to the shelter and get another cat. It cannot replace that wonderful soul you lost, but it does help fill the emptiness a bit and each cat is special in their own way.
According to Temple Grandin, genetically, black cats are the friendliest ones.
I am so sorry for your loss. It is so very hard. I lost my boy Harrison to cancer last March, a month before his 14th B-day & it tore me apart. I still grieve & feel I will never get over it. He was my heart & I feel so lonesome without him. I hope you can find some comfort as time passes.
I just found you through the Catify book you did with Jackson Galaxy. I’m so sorry to read that you lost your best friend, Ando! I have a group of seven cats, with the oldest being a Princess Chloe Blueberries who is 21. She is on four medications now and lost two pounds since February. She is my best friend and true soulmate, like your baby was and still is. I decided to get a tattoo last summer of a heart with a black paw print and the eternity symbol over my heart on my back. I’m sticking close to home, cancelled a trip to Great Britain, as I couldn’t bear to be away from her, especially in her condition. I truly feel for you…I can’t even think of life without my Chloe. Big hug, Judy